It's all about Low Jun Yew

WARNING! This post is one of my mind pieces and will be about me. Just me. I wouldn't expect anyone would care to read my infamous blog anyway. Just in case you did, this post is one of the things that I really wanted to say out the most. I wouldn't mind if you skipped reading if you really don't care to know anything about me.

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Living in this world, in the earth for 22 years 1 month and 19 days. I had been struggling to find myself within the masses. I had asked myself a lot of questions since I am at the age of 8. Why am I here? What is the purpose that I appear in this world? What am I suppose to do? These questions had been revolving in my mind in such young age. That might also be some type of family problems side effects? I had not tried to be myself. I had always been the person who being someone that the surroundings wanted. I had always tried to please most of the people that I met and needs my help. I am trying to be very helpful and handy just to be recognized by at least someone in my life. I just wish that at least there is someone who is willing to recognize me. I did, and I had been recognized through my work, but not to be recognized as ME. Not everyone are able to accept the way I am and be comfortable around me. I am not the type of person that everyone will invite me to hang out together. I felt left out in my little own world.


Talking about friends. I had many. I had met, we talked, we laughed, and be friend to a lot of humans that I had encountered. After the breakup with my ex. She let me see the world. She left my window opened wide. That moment, I realized that I do not have any friends at all. Yes I had seem to had a lot of FRIENDS, but not a single person know's me well. I had no best friend at all. Last time I thought I had a few best friends, but they are gone now. They had continue on their own story of life and I had been forgotten. I do not have anyone that places me as a priority or been categorized as one of the important person in their heart. Am I just a "touch N go" friend to everyone?


I had been trying to set my own destiny of my life after that day. I wanted to be myself and make myself happy. I will end these miserable robotic life that I had been through. I made new friends and keep those who is really worth to be in my friend list. I no longer work for free for EVERYONE from now on. I had taken a little initiative and be on my best to my friends that really appreciates me and to whom did not forgets me all these while. I had made few best friends that I really share my piece of mind with them. I am used to be the person with a lot of troubles and emotions. I hope my piece of mind in my life wouldn't surprised and provoke them to increase their barrier towards me. I had really place my faith to my new best friend and I am really trying to be a part of their life no matter what. I hope this time, I wouldn't be the one that "bertepuk tangan sebelah" and thought I had a "Best Friend" again. I'm glad I met you all. I really did. It's not like I am abandoning all my old friends. It's just that I wanted to start to write a story about MYSELF, and not about other people.



This piece of mind had suddenly start flowing and filling my empty brain during my shower. There is something in my heart wanted to tell to my dumb brain all these while. I finally felt it. I had been ignoring what my heart really wanted and not processing my brain all these while. There's a saying "We MUST walk on our path of life everyday without fail. Why don't we choose to be happy instead of sad?" I chose to be happy, and I will try to find myself to be on that side from now on. :) It is hard, but I shall try.